A Place For The God-Hungry is one my regular reads. Below is the summary, check out the details from Jim Martin:
10 Ways To Bless Your Children
1. Love them anyway.
2. Prepare them for the battleground, not the playground.
3. Deal with your issues.
4. Take every opportunity to remind them of who they are in Christ.
5. Bless your children by giving them you.
6. Say only what communicates value, respect, and love.
7. Be your child's greatest encourager.
8. Pray for your children.
9. Give them what they need not what they want.
10. Give your children something to look forward to when they come home.